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The Art of “Letting Go”

Posted by Roncarspeaks on 9th July 2012


The Art of "Letting Go."

(from 07-03-12)

A law of physics states that two objects cannot occupy the same space. With that in mind it is logical that our greatest progress often begins by “letting go.” Letting go often means that we must release old habits and old ways of thinking that often will result in letting go of long standing relationships that no longer serve us well, or changing situations for the benefit of our well being. However, so often it is the fear of the unknown that keeps us bound.


Letting go is the first step in receiving. There is an old story of a monkey who has his hand stuck in a jar. The reason he cannot pull his hand out of the jar is because he is holding a banana and the width of his fist with the banana is larger than the mouth of the jar. Yet he refuses to let go of the banana for fear of losing it. Of course in order to get to the object of his desire he must first “let go” and once the hand is removed he can pick up the jar and turn it over.

So often it is our fear of letting go of what we have or where we are which prevents us from getting what we truly want. The fear of losing what we have often prevents us from taking the leap of faith that can propel us to new heights. The self made man (or woman) will tell you that success never comes in a straight line. Success is met by a series of triumphs and failures that are all part of the climb to the summit. One thing that all successful people have in common is their ability to “let go,” regroup and move forward.

This is the basis for Roncar’s lecture this week. He says, “Come to know and love your fear.”  Knowledge of your fear will help to set yourself free because you can recognize how that fear is preventing you from accomplishing what you want. The fear of letting go of old beliefs and self imposed limitations can be every bit as difficult as letting go of something in the physical.

In this time of change many of us are being forced to let go of many things on many levels both physical and mental. We can allow fear to limit our steps forward or we can embrace the opportunity with a leap of faith with the knowledge that there is already something better for us on the other side of the equation.

In the words of a friend of mine who is a well known astrologer, “Change is inevitable. You can go kicking and screaming, or you can just enjoy the ride. One way or another, the train is leaving the station!”

You will find Roncar’s explanation of this topic both simple and profound. Anyone who listens will gain some new insight about your power to transform life by taking step number one, “letting go.”

Copyright (c) 2012 Roncar Speaks, All rights reserved.

Posted in Self Mastery, Personal Development, Motivation, Spiritual Development | Comments

Can You Pull A Rabbit Out of the Hat?

Posted by Roncarspeaks on 11th June 2012


Pulling A Rabbit Out of the Hat.

(from 06-05-12)


There is no question that we are in a great time of change. It seems like a page is turning on some chapter somewhere in the Akashic records and we are in the middle of adapting to the new a scene that is being set up around us.  Change and the ability to respond to that change is a necessity.

However with change there are always questions. Where am I going and what am I going to do with these new conditions or circumstances? What is the restless urge to move forward and what am I moving forward toward?

You might have a very good idea of where you would like to end up, but for most of us, how to get from point A to point B can be just as mysterious as pulling a rabbit out of a hat. We must discover the hidden path before us.

In this segment, Roncar will get you to think about how to see what you cannot see. He maintains that all of the answers to our questions are readily available at all times.  Because we are an extension of God, that supreme intelligence is all around and within us at every moment. Solutions are always before us.  Just like this children’s book illustration, the key to seeing what is hidden lies in our ability to suspend our crusty old calcified vision of reality and allow our divinely guided imagination to do some walking.

How Many faces do you see in this Illustration?


The more you look, the more you see.

“Ask it will be given. Seek and ye shall find.”

Thank you for listening!

Copyright (c) 2012 Roncar Speaks, All rights reserved.

Posted in Creation, Self Mastery, Personal Development, Motivation | Comments

The Hidden Power of Persistence

Posted by Roncarspeaks on 22nd May 2012


The Hidden Power of Persistence.

(from 05-15-12)

One of the reasons I am writing this newsletter today is because of the very subject matter in this lecture by Roncar.  Sometimes it is very hard to tell where you are on the path of your journey, especially when you are faced with a new goal, or a new set of circumstances or conditions.  It seems like, for most of us, there is a lot of change going on right now.  Everyone that I know is dealing with some sort of significant, life altering shift that is presenting a new set of challenges and the necessity of looking at the goals associated with them.


The hardest part of the journey always seems to be when you are making a consistent and steady effort but you do not seem to see any results for the energies you have invested. With consistent effort, ultimately the dormant energies hidden below the surface will build to offer some tangible evidence of a move forward on the physical plane. You can observe this kind of activity when you are learning just anything above your current skill level. As you practice drawing that picture, or learn how to play an instrument, one day you are rewarded with the mastery you have been striving to achieve.

So, as you may have guessed, in this week Roncar skillfully talks about the value of persistence and perseverance. However, intertwined with that discussion are also some clues on how to see that the movement that you are not noticing as you practice your daily routine.  In this segment I actually combined two lectures because they were so closely related and so complementary. In the second section Roncar offers a new expanded definition of persistence that offers a broader understanding of how to use persistence in new and creative ways.

If you have an interest in effecting change in your life, or in accomplishing a goal, today’s audio segment should not be overlooked.  It just might inspire within you that last little effort that could mean the difference between going home empty handed or celebrating the power of your own abilities to create and manifest the reality you desire.

Copyright (c) 2012 Roncar Speaks, All rights reserved.

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Do You Hold the Philosopher’s Stone?

Posted by Roncarspeaks on 28th April 2012


Do You Hold the Philosopher's Stone?

(from 04-24-12 at the I.S.D.)

The Philosopher’s Stone has long been associated with transformation. The Philosopher’s Stone and its magical alchemic power could transform coal into diamonds, lead into gold and even sickness into health. Currently most of us see the Philosopher’s Stone as ancient mythology, or perhaps a subject of Harry Potter’s quest, but in truth the search for the Philosopher’s stone is every bit as present today as it ever was at any time in history. Just think of the “get rich quick” schemes and offers that assault us everyday through a plethora of infomercials, radio ads and solicitous emails that entice us with a never ending string of promised short cuts. So just like the ancient alchemists of old who slaved over a bubbling cauldron trying to discover a secret science that could change their lives; so to we pursue the same, only in a more modern and complicated way.

In this week’s lecture, Roncar never mentions the Philosopher’s Stone. However as I was listening to Roncar’s message the thought came to me that yes indeed we all posses this magical wondrous substance that is the basis of transforming just about anything you can image within the blink of an eye. It is absolutely the single most significant element to effect change. It is so wondrous, not only can it change the present, but it can even change your past and have a profound influence on your future.

The funny thing is that we have all been in possession of this most valued Philosopher’s Stone the entire time. Unfortunately most of us are not aware of the power it possesses or even how simple it is to access, and just like the neigh Sayers from the past so many refuse to even acknowledge it as real. No doubt you have already touched it many times before, but perhaps did not realize the extent of its depth and power.

Are you curious yet?  Perhaps you need to listen to see what I am talking about.

Copyright (c) 2012 Roncar Speaks, All rights reserved.

Posted in Self Mastery, Personal Development, Spiritual Development | Comments

Slay the dragons on your path

Posted by Roncarspeaks on 21st April 2012


Slay the Dragons on Your Path.

(from 04-17-12)

Each one of us has a desire to create. We are all in the process of manifesting some goal or idea that we deem worthy.  We cannot help it. We are born to be creators within this Creation and whether you think about it or not, our hopes dreams and wishes are all a platform upon which we manifest the inspiration and creative wisdom that flows though us.

When our good intentions and aspirations to achieve are blocked, life can turn from the most positive and enthusiastic experience to one of frustration or even despair. Anyone who has ever set out to achieve anything worthwhile has always come to this point at one time or another.  There is an old proverb that says, "We make plans, God laughs."  Success or accomplishment never comes in a straight line, and just like a river, we must often go around the boulders (or mountains) to find a way back to the source.

In this week Roncar talks about overcoming the things that keep you from accomplishing your goals. These blocks can come in many varieties, shapes and sizes, however most of them come from within. They manifest in the form of frustration which leads to anger, self doubt which leads to a lack of self confidence and fear; and judgments which can ultimately deem the project dead.  These are the dragons you face along the path of accomplishment.

In his address Roncar will show you how to regenerate the breath of hope and the light of enthusiasm for whatever it is that you wish to manifest.  He talks about the power of suspending your judgments, reevaluating the perceptions that may cause your limitations, and shifting your focus to free you from being held hostage to the imaginary dragons that are no more than illusions along your path.

Copyright (c) 2012 Roncar Speaks, All rights reserved.

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You Are The Gardener of Your Life

Posted by Roncarspeaks on 24th March 2012


You Are the Gardener of Your Life

(from 03-20-12)

Have you ever tried to create or achieve something in your life that just never seems to arrive? Have you tried everything you can think of doing to push your project along with no sign of fruition, even though you may have been working at that project for many years? Have you ever stopped or given up on something because of the frustration?  Accept for a very rare few among us, we have all shared an experience like this at one time or another.

In this week’s lecture, Roncar not only speaks about the benefits of persistence and patience, but also addresses the matter of accomplishing your goals in this current environment of “change.” It is hard enough to manifest something under the conditions that are somewhat stable. But now, in this time period when so much of what was once considered familiar or common sense is being re-evaluated by individuals, societies and nations; the reference points by which we guide our ship are often missing or in some other spot yet to be determined.

Roncar emphasizes that times of change are often a perfect time to plough and plant new seeds. It is a time to rework what you have already done and to consider new ways to accomplish your goals. Even though nothing may appear to be happening on the surface, all of the energy you have invested in manifesting will only act as a fertilizer to enrich and enhance your crop when the timing is ripe for manifestation.

Roncar encourages us to continue with our dreams, goals and desires, for if you stop you will not harvest a thing. In his metaphor, “You are the Gardener of your life.” It is up to you to plough, plant, tend and weed your crop.  While you already know this to be true, it is so eloquently stated in this brief segment I am sure you will find listening to be both motivational and inspiring.

Copyright (c) 2012 Roncar Speaks, All rights reserved.

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Your Power Is Limitless

Posted by Roncarspeaks on 10th March 2012


Your Power Is Limitless

(from 03-06-12)

This past Tuesday we had a number of “new people” show up at our circle. This often happens in the Spring. It seems the nicer, warmer weather inspires people to take an initiative for growth.  In fact to accommodate more people, we are going to move our Tuesday night sessions to the Institute for Spiritual Development for 2 weeks each month beginning on March 27th. The sessions will begin at 8:00 PM on the second and fourth Tuesday of each month.  This location will be more centrally located for many. (15 Sparta Ave. Sparta NJ 07871)

We define new people being those who have never attended a trance channel session before. So the phenomenon of seeing Norma channel spirit was a first time experience,  and so was the opportunity for Roncar to introduce the essence of his message that comes though week after week in one form or another.

His teaching is simple, yet powerful and eloquently stated. Incarnation brings us the opportunity to reflect our divine nature.  Man is made in the image of God as a creator within the creation.  It is only in the physical that we have the opportunity to create. You alone are the greatest influence on your world. The thoughts you think, the perceptions you cultivate and the actions you take make you the ultimate authority on what you experience.

In this address, Roncar concludes, “You are the greatest power. Know that this is true. Know that you have infinite power to create a wonderful life for yourself. “

You might say, “Of course! I know that already.”  However, as you take a look at your life in its current state, is there not room for a more refined application of these simple truths?  If you want to play Golf successfully, mastering the swing is the most important element for success. The mechanics and the laws of physics never change. One can understand exactly what to do. It is not hard to understand. But how many can hit that ball perfectly every time? The same is true in this game we call life. Revue the basics and practice, practice, practice….

Copyright (c) 2012 Roncar Speaks, All rights reserved.

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The Mantras That Run Your Life

Posted by Roncarspeaks on 3rd March 2012


The Mantras That Run Your Life

(from 02-03-09)

It has been a little quiet around here for the past week.  For whatever reason, Norma has attracted a case of laryngitis. It has almost been a full week and now her voice is just beginning to croak back to “Normal.”  As a result we did cancel Circle this past Tuesday. The metaphysical view about the situation would be it was “meant to be.” We do expect to be up and running again this coming Tuesday, unless Norma reverses her course.

So, to come up with this week’s audio segment I placed a giant stack of our CDs in front of Norma and asked her to pick three, so that I could choose something appropriate for the newsletter.  Of course the first one she chose turned out to be the one we are going to listen to today. It is “classic” Roncar. Just some plain Wisdom from the other side, ripe with understanding and a common sense approach to the spiritual side of life.

“The Mantras that run your life” accomplishes two purposes. One is to simply explain how and why a mantra will enable you to find the voice of God within you. For those who are already adept at meditation, you will recognize the truth in this lecture immediately. But then Roncar brings the message of the mantra into a slightly different territory. No matter how adept you might be at meditation, the conscious and subconscious mantra(s) that surface into our mind and run out of our mouth every day is one of the most powerful influences on our day-to-day, moment-to-moment experience of life itself. What are you creating? Do you correct and readdress the unbridled thoughts that float in your head?

You may already know this simple truth, but I urge you to listen to this segment to energize your resolve and renew your discipline to be the master of your own mind and domain. Perhaps this is the message that was “meant to be” for you at this moment in time.

Copyright (c) 2012 Roncar Speaks, All rights reserved.

Posted in Self Mastery, Personal Development, Motivation, Meditation, Affirmation | Comments

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